tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5526156988772719350.post3782607535887107012..comments2023-08-22T15:03:34.991+01:00Comments on HOME EDUCATION: When is outspokenness, rudeness?Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5526156988772719350.post-70636605589533578942012-11-20T08:59:32.273+00:002012-11-20T08:59:32.273+00:00Honesty is essential - absolutely. It does need to...Honesty is essential - absolutely. It does need to be tempered with kindness though. <br /><br />It's also necessary, in my book, to be honest about the social consequesnces of honesty - that middle-class polite thing has a lot of clout in this country and knowing when it's at play is important so that we can choose whether or not to engage that way.<br /><br />But yeah, I'm Lilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12732069465269276569noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5526156988772719350.post-20619307177430918652012-10-31T18:33:43.533+00:002012-10-31T18:33:43.533+00:00Big question.
Funnily s (who is 7) and i were tal...Big question.<br /><br />Funnily s (who is 7) and i were talking about just this today as they are keen to start martial arts and S has read through the long list on the group website about being submissive and never questioning the teacher and she is not at all cool about that and it has made her wonder if she actually wants to go now.<br /><br />I guess my feelings are similar to those about Katie Pybushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07976018380275089801noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5526156988772719350.post-48112929537523710902012-10-29T13:35:47.553+00:002012-10-29T13:35:47.553+00:00I believe being outspoken is fine - I hope so beca...I believe being outspoken is fine - I hope so because I am ;) - I think it is more about guidence on how to be outspoken in a positive way, being as polite about things as possible and considering whether being outspoken will produce a positive outcome or a negative one. Learning to be diplomatic I suppose x Lisa Gwinnellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16217510693331174728noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5526156988772719350.post-45203061361001875662012-10-29T07:51:15.309+00:002012-10-29T07:51:15.309+00:00I have often wondered the same thing. My husband a...I have often wondered the same thing. My husband and I are in the process of trying to retrain our own thinking/ expectations of eldest daughter. I was on my own with her for many years and was heavily influenced by my parents expectations of her behaviour and of others around her. Very much of the submission and blind obedience category. It is a hard habit to get out of...especially now we lean Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04776429388293290274noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5526156988772719350.post-3972649665955089742012-10-28T21:25:55.240+00:002012-10-28T21:25:55.240+00:00The more fake the situation, the more risk of outs...The more fake the situation, the more risk of outspokenness happening! Am I wrong?<br /><br />globeonmytablehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08609128836118306664noreply@blogger.com